Our team
Drawing on diverse experience and shared values

Jilly Carrell MA
Founder and CEO
Jilly is the founder of Beyond the Wire. She was an army spouse for nearly 20 years until the death of her husband Colonel Nick Carrell, who died while serving in 2021. Her experience of navigating the bureaucracies, rules, and fragmented support available to bereaved Armed Forces families highlighted the need for increased focus on the issues, and a desperate need to drive improvement and change.
In a professional capacity, Jilly has worked for a number of Armed Forces charities across policy, development, and grant-giving roles. This combination of professional insight and powerful life experience is at the heart of the mission of Beyond The Wire. Jilly is a passionate advocate for improving thriving lives for the military bereaved. She is a Winston Churchill Fellow.

Steve Rowbotham
Chair
Steve has a comprehensive background in the defence industry having worked in this sector throughout his career spanning over four decades. Steve is now a Non-Executive Director of General Dynamics UK Limited having previously been employed by the Company as Chief Operating Officer. He is a Trustee of Bovington Tank Museum where he chairs the Collection Committee and is also a business mentor to military veterans for the Charity Heropreneurs.

Caroline Paxton
Director of Strategy
Caroline is a senior HR and change professional with over 40 years’ experience across the corporate, public and voluntary sectors. An Army child and a veteran, she served for 13 years in the Army, including tours in Germany and Northern Ireland, before moving into advertising and management consultancy with PwC and BT. As an interim, she has delivered major change programmes for organisations including BP, Anheuser-Busch InBev, Tate & Lyle and Philip Morris International, focusing on helping people learn, develop and grow. Caroline is Chair of the Military Wives Choir and a Governor and Safeguarding Governor at St Catherine’s School, Bramley.
As Director of Strategy, she is committed to giving a voice to the “hidden serving” and tackling the inequalities that affect bereaved families.

Fiona Walker
Director of Communications
In a wide-ranging career Fiona has worked as a news journalist for BBC, ITN, APTN, and Reuters before becoming Chief of Staff to a senior UK government minister and working across a number of departments including Foreign and Commonwealth Office, International Trade, Justice, Education, Environment, and Food & Rural Affairs.
Fiona is the founder of Parly Connect – a UK and Europe based government, communications and external relations consultancy. She is also a trustee of the Keystone Development Trust, a community resource and support charity operating in the East of England. Her experience of navigating the complexities of government and policy, combined with a strong news sense in recognising the best ways to engage external audiences, is an essential part of how Beyond the Wire will make a difference to Armed Forces bereaved families.

Roseanna Furphy
Company Secretary and Director of Legal
Roseanna is a practising City lawyer with more than twenty years’ experience in several international law firms, specialising in data protection and privacy law. A King’s College London graduate, she combines legal expertise with a commercial approach to risk. Married to a veteran who served alongside Colonel Nick Carrell, Roseanna is a passionate advocate for better support and access to services for veterans and their families.
As Company Secretary and Director of Legal, her focus is to help ensure Beyond the Wire achieves its vision with integrity, ethics and transparency.

Harriet Hay MBACP (Accred)
Director of Trauma Support & Wellbeing
Harriet is a counsellor/psychotherapist, EMDR Therapist and clinical supervisor. Her background is 28-years as a nurse in both the NHS and the Army. She specialises in working with people navigating bereavement, trauma, anxiety, and life limiting illnesses and works in both the third sector and in private practice.
As an Army spouse for 22 years, Harriet brings lived experience of the unique pressures and emotional demands placed on armed forces families.
Her aim is to add value to Beyond The Wire’s mission by shining a light on how to find compassionate, trauma informed support, information and specialist help when a bereaved armed forces family needs it most.

Spike O’Brien
Director of Finance
Spike has had a long career within the Royal Army Pay Corps and Adjutants General Corps, serving 22 years, Warrant Officer Class 1. He also was a freelance lecturer in accounting and tax, shortlisted for Financial Accounting Tutor of 2005.
Spike is currently involved in Charted Management – Hd Finance, Security Services Group (MOD) who provide technology-based security solutions to Critical National Infrastructure sites.
Spike provides Beyond the Wire with much welcomed guidance and advice in relation to funding, the financial aspects of operating a CIC, and governance support.
Our Board Advisors
Our advisors are specialists in their fields and provide valuable insight and guidance.
Brigadier Richard Dennis OBE is an experienced Chair, Advisor and Coach to industry and the third sector. He previously served in a number of senior Army and MOD posts, including as Deputy Commander of the NATO Training Mission in Afghanistan.
Brigadier Leigh Tingey FCMI FInstRE is an executive experienced in leading large, complex multinational organisations. He previously served as the Chief of Staff of the Standing Joint Command (UK).






